tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5650979411395789660.post3291080050368276933..comments2023-12-24T06:06:51.548+08:00Comments on Shin's Cancer Blog: A Better Life?Shinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12174401097883054144noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5650979411395789660.post-14430670478758472342008-08-19T05:48:00.000+08:002008-08-19T05:48:00.000+08:00ALWAYS BLESSINGS, NEVER LOSSESALWAYS BLESSINGS, NEVER LOSSESAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5650979411395789660.post-74702056506048505802008-08-14T09:18:00.000+08:002008-08-14T09:18:00.000+08:00Is it not so that we should SOMEHOW realise the li...Is it not so that we should SOMEHOW realise the lives we are given AS our paradise?! I know it can be tough BUT even the tragedies mould our very existence. I don't know who maps out our lives and decides who gets the "bum end of the deals" BUT I DO know that I wouldn't change even the WORST times in my life! Being diagnosed with MS in the UK (and at the time severely disabled with it) meant my husband wasn't able to work for a year....this enabled us to spend prcious time together....in turn he got to spend the quality time with his children that few working parents (especially Fathers) are able to have. Those intense months of Fatherhood are now a source of happy memories for him some 5 years after Harriet died and will ocntinue to be for all eternity....Until I got sick, he was working long hours, often overseas and always tired and grumpy when he finally got a day off..........I find myself in a strange situation now - the flip side of the coin I suppose? Desperate to "succeed" at something after having been a "mum and housewife" for so many years I have returned back to work FULL TIME having studied hard over the last couple of years to get myself qualified....HAPPY? FAR FROM IT! I now find my life overloaded with "work" in many guises and lay awake worrying about more than I have ever done before....I cry because I am rushing around too much and in turn not giving the kids all the attention I should be......SO......To sum up.....I wanted to exchange my "menial" life for a more fruitful one....the result? Well...you can work that out for yourself!<BR/>In the words of my Dad who emailed me this morning to try to "cheer me up".......<BR/>"Take time to smell the flowers"<BR/>Who REALLY wants to be a film star with all those weirdos stalking you and a personal life thats far from personal!<BR/>Who REALLY wants so much money that you don't actually appreciate the things you have.<BR/>Who REALLY wants a big house with all the dusting and tidying it brings with it?! (In fact, I have a big house - and I HATE it! It is NOT homely and I feel like I live in a hotel)<BR/>In short, I'm with you Shin.....<BR/><BR/>Less<BR/>IS<BR/>MORELeighbeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16376700098397659407noreply@blogger.com